The size of the penis is a redundant question that does not spare the male sex. Many men wonder what is the ideal penis size? Does penis size really matter? What are women's real expectations of male height? We have decided to help you see things more clearly by taking the question under a scientific aspect.
1 Average penis size
2 The ideal size of a penis for women
3 Relationship between penis size and sexual pleasure
4 Relationship between fertility and penis size
5 How big is a micro penis?
6 What to do when the penis size does not suit you?
7 Conclusion on the size of his penis
Average Penis Size
To date, only one scientific study has highlighted the average size of the penis and can be given according to 3 criteria (source):
– The size of the penis at rest: it is 9.16 cm – The dimension of the erect penis: it is 13.12 cm – The circumference of the erect penis: it is 11.66 cm
Indeed, there are many polls on the issue but very few are reliable. The main reason is that it is the male members themselves who give their measurements and these can be biased by measurement error or overestimation. Indeed, some men do not know how to measure their penis.
In this scientific review, the British researchers used the results of 20 clinical studies with a total of more than 15,000 penises measured.The objective was to have an average size closest to reality. However, we can note some biases.
First of all, the average dimension of a penis can vary according to the country. For example, the average size of a penis in France turns out to be slightly higher according to the French Academy of Surgery.
In addition, the average size of a penis is not necessarily equivalent to the ideal size to provide pleasure to women or to achieve sexual fulfillment (source).
The ideal size of a penis for women
Although the size of your phallus is associated with virility and male strength, does it relate to female pleasure? Indeed, it is one of the most discussed topics: does penis size matter when having sex? Does it play a role in sexual intercourse or sexual pleasure and desire?
At first, researchers wondered what was the ideal size of a penis for women. For this, the study was carried out on 75 sexually active women. 33 3D penis models have been created with different sizes.
As a result, each of the women present had to blindly choose the size that suited them the most. The result reveals that the ideal size of a penis for women would be 15 cm (source).
If this study is based only on touch, thus forgetting the affective and emotional side of sexual relations, another study has shown that approximately 45% of men would be persuaded to have a penis that is too small, while 85% of women are satisfied with their partner's penis size (source).
Another study suggests that while men are more concerned with length, women are more focused on penis width (source).
On the other hand, sex shop brands claim that the most popular sex toys for women are far from oversized. Indeed, the best-selling model does not exceed 12.5 cm.
Relationship between penis size and sexual pleasure
We can then ask ourselves if there really is an ideal size for sexual pleasure. You should know that there is no scientific study linking sexual pleasure and penis size.
Nevertheless, some research has highlighted the anatomical variation of the clitoris in women and their sexual pleasure (source). Thus, it would seem that the ideal penis size may vary depending on the libidinal partner.
In addition, men generally attach great importance to the size of their penis as a symbol of their virility and sexuality. Thus, the feeling of having a penis that is too small, as with the locker room syndrome, could have a negative impact on the individual's confidence, which can thus lead to erectile dysfunction and libido (source).
Thus, the real relationship between penis size and sexual pleasure is above all psychological. Know that in the majority of cases, doubts about penis size are unfounded (source, source).
Relationship between fertility and penis size
There is no scientifically proven relationship between penis size and fertility. However, there is a connection between ejaculatory problems and infertility (source). Indeed, it would seem that sexual dysfunctions can affect the fertility of male individuals (source). You should know that these disorders are above all a biological problem (source, source).
However, stress, lack of self-confidence and psychological disorders can also promote the appearance of sexual dysfunction via a psychosomatic mechanism (source).
Thus, if it is impossible to make a direct link between fertility and penis size, the size complexes of sex can play a role in infertility problems.
How big is a micro penis?
Are you slightly below average? However, don't confuse small penis with micro penis. Indeed, the micropenis affects only 0.6% of the world's population (source) and appears, in most cases, from birth.
A micro penis is a penis whose erect size does not exceed 9.32 cm (source). This characteristic can cause serious psychological disorders such as anxiety, depression or loss of self-confidence.
However, be aware that having a micropenis does not affect the biological functioning of the penis.
What to do when the size of the penis does not suit you?
If you are not satisfied with the size of your penis, know that there are several methods to enlarge your penis. Nevertheless, before choosing one of the options, we advise you to consult a sexologist or other health professional.
Indeed, this one will be able to direct you towards an option which corresponds to you according to your case.
Penis surgeries: penoplasty or phalloplasty
Surgeries are often very expensive and invasive. However, in some cases they turn out to be the only solution. There are 2 techniques that allow you to enlarge the penis via an intervention:
– Cut the suspensory ligament of the penis : the surgeon will detach the penis from the pubis. Thus, it appears visually longer. However, these extra centimeters come at the expense of erections which are often weakened (source). – Implant fat between the tissues of the penis: This technique does not lengthen the penis, it increases the circumference of the penis. On the other hand, the results are not lasting, the fat is absorbed at one time or another and not always in a uniform way (source).
There are not enough studies on the potential risks or benefits of penis enlargement surgery to conclude that it is safe and effective.
A therapy
One method of coming to terms with your penis size is through therapy. This gentle but effective method will make you aware that your penis has an acceptable size.
Conclusion on the size of his penis
You can therefore put the size of your penis into perspective and avoid stress and anxiety. Because, from a physical point of view, there is no reason not to make love anymore and for your sex life not to be fulfilled.